tangokilo try to convince your TD to source a PPF dial if that is your biggest concern - leave the movement as it is if thickness is not a problem to you (0,5mm difference by buying a whole 500$ watch is quite a sum).
You won‘t fool anyone that is into pateks with a rep movement so it comes down to your personal preference.
the consensus is pretty much like you said - the bezel and crown issue is best adressed with the PF case while PPF got its strength in certain points like finishing and thinness - all for a steep compromise.
IMO you will save a lot by ordering a single PPF dial (maybe hands additionally) and get a custom DWO as the PF stock DW font is trash and won‘t even align with the cut out of the PPF dial.
But if you are only bothered by the lume color - a reluming and repositioning of the markers could also bring you the satisfaction you seek as the blue is none of your concerns. Price wise it won‘t make a huge difference to a new dial.
I think it is safe to say that it‘s much appreciated that you took the time to read through the information.
keep us updated on your build!