Hi J
We all have flaws in our personalities and both Q and I have been called more names than we care to count. I care about the regular and contributing members in this section and count Erinoush and Pdatoon among them. Pdatoon is also a personal friend of mine.
I generally do not comment on member personality but you seem to wear your “weaknesses” proudly, and speak of them as virtues rather than points to reflect upon and improve. It’s like me openly stating that I’m elitist, but I’m trying to improve on that. The point is that if I know I’m one, improving on it is something I do internally and not state openly with a challenging tone.
Of course you have your valid points sir. I agree with some points you raised about being pedantic of flaws which will not get seen in real life. Good points and valid without doubt. But to deliver your points with aggression and lace them with insults does not really win others over in your argument. When you get aggressive with others, I will step in if the other party is a friend or valued member like your good self, and you can be assured each time sir that I will bring the mighty calvary
QueTip with me. If you learn to manage your own aggression, I’m sure that your points will be better taken. The point you raise about your smile not being seen etc applies to each of us fairly. When you’re bashing someone at the other end, have you also given due consideration to his feelings and thoughts?
There is a fine line between being a leader and a tyrant. You can choose to club all differing opinions into submission with brute force and you can be sure that the same will be done to you sir. It won’t end well for you. But I much prefer the alternative scenario where we can all get along and you do not act aggressively toward others and dictate on a thread what can be discussed and what cannot. I find that tyrannical and you can be sure I will not comply or be subordinate to such behavior or demands. Neither do I wish to see you bullying others again in the AP section please. Am I a section moderator? No sir I’m not. But do I have the necessary influence to lend the necessary weight to what I say? Yes sir I do. Never doubt that.
FYI I think that your points are in general rationally sound and accurate. But I’ve watched your aggression grow toward others and ive watched others shy away from confronting you. I do not care if you are cocky, arrogant or proud in real life, because like I said, you do not have monopoly over those traits in life sir. Some of us just learn to control these weaknesses better when interacting with others. And not everyone will back down from your cockiness. I much prefer to engage you in a discussion over watches and details than to discuss with you the meaningless topic of ego and pride in this forum. Like I mentioned you raised many good and valid points to others and I even liked those posts personally, but please do not seek to dominate this section with aggression and insults. If you try harder, I think we can all get along. I like the members here in general and I do not want to see them bullied into silence. If need be, I will always stand up and speak for them. And you can be sure sir that I’m never alone. You know that I cannot be doing this without the necessary support from those with the authority.
Let’s just get along with the guys J. You’re a good guy with excellent reasoning but please learn to express yourself more cordially to others here.
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