I can’t stand looking at mismatching dial/hands lume. It just looks ugly and a complete deal breaker for me.
I don’t care whether others can see it from 2m or whatever but I can see it on MY own wrist and I personally can’t live with it.
Unfortunately A lot of reps have this issue, you may consider having the dial and hands relumed to match. Although, a lot of relume jobs I have see tend to come with scratched hands and hour markers - it’s hard to get crisp lume application by hand (at least the rep factories use precision machines for apply lume).
Anyways, there’s always something to complain about when it comes to reps! Suppose that’s part of the hobby.
I think you have summed it up pretty well mech. To paraphrase you on two points I agree strongly with
1. It does not matter what others see or do not see, it is your watch and you decide what you can live with (and what you cannot)
2. Yes, imperfection of details is a significant and pervasive part of this hobby. Often, you either accept it as it is, or try to mod it if you cannot. If its still not perfect at the end and its a watch you really really like, perhaps it is time to get the gen.