watch winders can contribute to general wear and tear
To be honest, I’ve found the opposite to be true ( in my case only and especially with screw down crown assemblies so it’s not a general truth )
By keeping some of my watches on a winder, they,ll keep powering up via the rotor with no need for manual winding. The day/ date also doesn’t need any manual adjustment via the crown and the Watch lubricants keep circulating. On 3 of my watches that aren’t on a winder, I’ve had issues with the crown and date change mechanism. Each time I’ve had to wear them I’ve had to unscrew the crown and make manual changes and then also do a manual wind to kick start it. As many will attest to, doing this quite regularly on 7750 Rep movements is inviting failure- not to mention the very well known issues with VSF screw down crown watches, especially seamasters.
I guess everyone has different experiences so sharing is caring !!