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How to keep your wife from knowing!

JaeRSr.

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Hello fellow collectors,

I have a wife who makes it a habit of keeping an eye on the banking accounts. Naturally, ordering a few reps from time to time can create a significant problem for guys like me because debits, and to where they go, tend to show up on bank statements right? So, I decided to write about one way to get around this um, challenge.

Its not uncommon for me to take out cash almost weekly for things that I may need (gas, groceries, etc.) for the family. So its not really unjustifiable for me to grab a few hundred dollars from time to time. The buzz word here is "justifiable" though. Most married men here understand that the hundreds of dollars spent to feed our rep habit is rarely ever going to be considered justifiable by most wives.

So, what can we do aside from waiting for birthdays, or work raises when we want to grab that ultimate AP, PAM or TC sub? Well if, like me, you can get your hands on cash, you can visit your local market and grab a Visa Gift Card. They are perfect for PP accounts!

Side note: do not use Target Gift Cards. They don't work specifically because the key to using these cards with PP is that you have to register them thereby enabling you to associate a mailing address to the card. Once you have a mailing address associated, you simply add the card to your PP account!!!!

Now no charges to TDs end up on your bank accounts. Of course, there is the issue of intercepting the mail now and also explaining where that shiny new watch came from that you're wearing all of a sudden lol! At least it is a solution to half the challenge though.

Hope it helps,

J.
 

VB_Spike

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Sneaky. Not my way of doing things.

Just make sure if you have 2-3 watches, you buy her a J12 or a Tag every now and again. If she's got arm candy, she'll care less about yours.

Stop being so selfish :p
 

JaeRSr.

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She's more of a diamond girl. Believe me, I definitely have a seperate savings account for that! I do hear you though.

Sent from my awesome Galaxy S3!
 

If you see Kay

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I think I read a thread about this a while ago. If you have to keep your wife from knowing then there is something either A: seriously wrong with your relationship, or B: seriously wrong with your hobby. There should be no secret hobbies amonst spouses. I tell mine about my animal fetishes all the time.
 

JaeRSr.

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Honestly things are going really great between my wife and I! Also, I don't think my hobby is to the point where its seriously a problem.

Every once in a while though I do see something that I may want. Making up the purchase monetarily is not the issue, opportune timing on the other hand well, that's different and who wants to argue over it when you don't have to!

I do understand your point though and for the most part, you are correct.

Thanks for sharing.

Sent from my awesome Galaxy S3!
 

mrfog

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You pay bills, food, petrol and the rest of that stuff half and half. The rest of your earnings are yours to do with as you please. I've already said to my wife I don't want a joint account. A man needs his reps goddammit.
 

If you see Kay

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hahh, hahh.

I pay the bills, clean the house, cook, shop for groceries, and all that shit. All she has to provide is a warm pussy at night. Some nice boobies to complement that help too.
 

burg650

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Me, I have found it much cheaper to be alone no one to answer to but myself lol. I buy what ever I want and I buy a lot of big boys toys, but for those who are not as lucky as I am and you buy yourself a gift buy her a better one.
 

drrod

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[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sC6NrQ0kNNU"]A mans Fairytale HQ - YouTube[/ame]
 

JaeRSr.

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@burg650:

That's the golden rule for me. Her gifts take a little more time to save for lol! In the meantime though, I'm not going to sit around and window shop lol.

Certainly not gonna cause an argument over buying a Rep that i like either.

I'm good sticking to my process. It works, the universe is in balance, life I'd good. But I'm not knocking others opinions. Do what works for you!


Sent from my awesome Galaxy S3!
 

JaeRSr.

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@burg650:

Yes, you are a lucky fellow. You remind me of myself in my 20's! Also, I always buy her the better ones lol!
 

JaeRSr.

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@Sub4me:

lol! good one. But really, after being married as many years as I have, one learns to aim for the resolution that causes the least amount of conflict lol.
 

rud19

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I completely understand. At times it's not as easy as saying that it's your money or you should accept my hobby... women are complicated, and especially the ones that we marry. Anyway, I posted a "similar" thread about 4-5 months ago and listened to some advices. At first she didn't want me to buy her watches, she said she was not interested. I however bought her a Cartier B.B and recently a L.V Tambour (very nice watch, unfortunately I don't know what's wrong with photobucket since a few days...) and she is very very happy.
 

believer123

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A man needs his toys. It sounds like you have he crave under control, so have fun with your hobby, but occasionally buy her one too. After receiving a couple nice watches, she wii understand and eventually not even care.
 

jrodshibuya

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I bought my wife an expensive diamond ring, as a surprise present. Her response when she finds out I ordered a couple of $80 watches, "But you don't NEED another watch".

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