If only we all have a dollar every time someone asks who has the best whatever..
Responses comes in 2 forms. The first is people giving actual good advice, which includes what you should be doing instead of asking such a question. Which
tripdog has very kindly done so in his first reply.
The second are what you perceive as negative comments, but that is because many people are absolutely sick and tired of newbs coming here, not researching, asking a question like this expecting to be spoonfed information, and cluttering up the forum with useless threads.
It is wholly up to the members here if they want to respond to the thread, and how they want to respond. If you get advice, thank them. If you get ridiculed or scolded, either realise your mistake and learn from it, or at the very least keep quiet. What REALLY gets to me, is when a newb comes here, does something stupid, and then has the cheek to show attitude to more senior members who actually contributes to the forum. Seriously?