As another slim-wristed guy the white dial / orange hands 41 AT is my daily driver too, and agree with most everything that has been said so far.
The way the lugs taper sharply down make it wear a lot smaller than 41, I've worn some 39s that feel bigger on my wrist.
And yeah, the white dial looks so much better with the rubber band with the orange stitching, just pops. (not to mention than omega bracelets, even gens, don't feel particularly well made).