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This whole thread is about judging.
This is a shortcut our mind does so we can assess our environment fast. You can not deny or ignore it.
There is less chance to be call out wearing the lowest quality Rolex quartz rep when you get out from a nice Bently with a driver and a suite comparing to a knowledgeable rep member with super franken sub wearing a T-shirt and driving Toyota Prios. That is how our mind works and it is better to acknowledge that and even "use" it than to ignore it...
Well, I'm happy not to have this mind and that my friends don't have this mind either. It's certainly no shortcut, it's just a dick move and bad habit.
So I won't be acknowledging that, nor use it, and will still call people that do it : dickheads.
I don't judge people on external signs, but rather engage with people and see what they have in their mind, doing anything else is asking for errors and troubles. We are not in an imminent threat scenario, we don't need to assess our environment in a second here.
Call it every way you want : but the one that is calling you out for no reason and the guy that judge someone else based on external criteria, are made from the same bad wood !