<-MrZoSo-> said:
Assuming is wrong. This is a fact. Never judge a book by its cover is an old adage that works well here.
I completely agree with you. Make no mistake about that. I wish that were the case and it would be in an ideal world.
But no matter how many times we're exposed to examples of people (or things or places) being different than we expect, I still think it's human nature to make those assumptions based on our perceptions and society (barring people like hk who live in oil country).
I am well aware that lots of people have much more money than they appear to have. Yet, just last month when I was travelling, I was boarding the flight and noticed some guy sitting in first class who looked like he was wearing clothes that cost $5. Total. Including his shoes. And my first thought, I'm sorry to say, was "How is
THAT guy in first class?" My second was, "Maybe his company is paying for it or he got a free upgrade."
Maybe I'm a bad, uneducated, ignorant person for thinking that but I'm willing to bet that most other people would have a similar first impression of the guy based on his appearance (even if he had $308 billion dollars in his bank account). And if they saw a Rolex on his wrist (using that as an example of the layperson's "gold standard" of an expensive watch) they'd probably think it was fake.