Given that this is an online forum, and that most members--except for the eternal "lurkers" (another over-used phrase) who are happy to just read and never make a comment--have to type in some words to participate in this forum, which is necessarily discursive, unless people just upload photos (do we have a word for people who just upload photos and do not say a thing?), it is absolutely amazing to me, that when you look closely at these automatic phrases that are used almost 1,000s of times per week here, that they are all somewhat absurd and even irritating in their stupidity, like was just pointed out with "PM'ed with intent." It is as if maybe 15% of the language here has any meaning beyond "I piss on this sales thread like a big Labrador to mark it as mine" when you really think about it.