Ok, so first, sorry about your father. Now let me get thus straight, you bought a second watch, didn't receive it, he refunded you, then it arrived. Did you ever pay for the second watch again as asked? I understand other things were on your mind, but if repayment wasn't sent that is unacceptable. Did he keep the payment on watch#3 to recover funds from the failure to live up to your obligations after the watch number two. We need a more detailed timeline and perhaps proof of payments with personal information removed?