Doc brown
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- 1/11/17
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Thank you for the great words of kindness. I am really torn apart. This started 2 years before my retirement of being an detective in he Nypd. Our pensions were based on our best year out of 5 or the best consecutive average over 5 years or your last year if it doesnt go 20% over your year prior. So he hurt me a little financially although I was the kind of cop that always made sure I had overtime.
Now, it is almost 7 years later and he is still stuck on step one.
He actually asked my sister and mom, why dont they have alcohol there so when he goes on these bindles that he won't have too go and disappear.
He is killing my mom. Me it is just taking a told on my watch stuff. I built my shop better today. I boxed stuff I need too mail. So I got some stuff done.
Thank you my fellow brothers. This is why I consider this place a family. really I can come here with any of my problems and you guys understand. From the bottom of my heart I thank you.
Rob
Anytime. We are all here mate. I'm no expert but a community like this is more than just talking watches for me. I've been helped and educated more times than I have ever been on any forum. It's places like this where we men and women should feel at home.
I understand your situation. Because shortly after my uncle died, my he's dad had a heart attack at 42 from the stress of losing his eldest son only a a year after. Non smoker / vegetarian, never drank.
Try to stay focused on positive things and you can only be the best man you know how to be. That's all. He can only blame himself if it keeps deteriorating without accepting help from others. I feel for your mother.